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10 ways to connect with your grandchildren

Tips on how to build a lasting closeness with your grandchildren.

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10 ways to connect with your grandchildren

A relationship with your grandchildren can be a rewarding experience. It takes communication, trust, and shared experiences.

Grandparents have always played an important role. Often, it’s to help your children with parenting. But it can be even more meaningful.

For example, see how Myra, Salvador, and Elsie enjoy their time together:

A relationship with your grandchildren can be a rewarding experience. It takes communication, trust, and shared experiences.

Grandparents have always played an important role. Often, it’s to help your children with parenting. But it can be even more meaningful.

For example, see how Myra, Salvador, and Elsie enjoy their time together:

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Myra, Salvador, and Elsie

In this video, Myra and Salvador share their experiences and learning journey as they spend time with their granddaughter, Elsie.

Looking to strengthen your family bonds? Here are 10 ways to enjoy time with your grandchildren that they will remember and value:

1. Be a good listener

Take the time to listen to their thoughts and feelings without judgment. This creates a supportive space.

It's easier to build a strong connection when you accept your grandchildren for who they are.

Be open to your grandchildren’s ideas and perspectives on life.

Take the time to listen to their thoughts and feelings without judgment. This creates a supportive space.

It's easier to build a strong connection when you accept your grandchildren for who they are.

Be open to your grandchildren’s ideas and perspectives on life.

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2. Learn about your grandchildren’s interests

Being curious about your grandchildren's interests fosters a deeper connection.

Take an interest in their hobbies and activities. Whether it's sports, music, or a particular subject at school.

Being curious about your grandchildren's interests fosters a deeper connection.

Take an interest in their hobbies and activities. Whether it's sports, music, or a particular subject at school.

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3. Embrace technology to connect

Keep connected more often with:

  • Video calls
  • Messaging
  • Sharing photos through social media

Keep connected more often with:

  • Video calls
  • Messaging
  • Sharing photos through social media
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4. Share stories and memories

Share family stories.

These can be from your own childhood or about their parents when they were young.

This helps create a sense of family history.

Share family stories.

These can be from your own childhood or about their parents when they were young.

This helps create a sense of family history.

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5. Attend their events

Being at your grandchildren's important events shows your interest and support. It also connects you with their community. For example, you can attend:

  • School plays
  • Sports events
  • Ballet recitals
  • Celebrations

Being at your grandchildren's important events shows your interest and support. It also connects you with their community. For example, you can attend:

  • School plays
  • Sports events
  • Ballet recitals
  • Celebrations
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6. Make the effort to share good experiences

Quality time together helps to build a strong bond.

Plan activities that you can enjoy together. For example:

  • Baking
  • Fishing
  • Playing games
  • Supporting their sports and interests

Quality time together helps to build a strong bond.

Plan activities that you can enjoy together. For example:

  • Baking
  • Fishing
  • Playing games
  • Supporting their sports and interests
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7. Create traditions

Establish traditions. For example:

  • Regular catch-ups to enjoy a special meal
  • Yearly outings
  • Holiday rituals

This helps to form lasting memories. It also gives your grandchildren something to look forward to.

Establish traditions. For example:

  • Regular catch-ups to enjoy a special meal
  • Yearly outings
  • Holiday rituals

This helps to form lasting memories. It also gives your grandchildren something to look forward to.

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8. Teach your grandchildren something new

Share your skills and knowledge if they show an interest.

This can give you a future of quality time with your grandchildren.

It also helps them to gain skills and a sense of mastery.

Share your skills and knowledge if they show an interest.

This can give you a future of quality time with your grandchildren.

It also helps them to gain skills and a sense of mastery.

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9. Learn about your grandchildren’s friends

Be curious about your grandchildren’s friends.

Find out what they enjoy doing when they catch up with their friends.

Be curious about your grandchildren’s friends.

Find out what they enjoy doing when they catch up with their friends.

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10. Discover new interests together

Do something together that none of you have done before.

There are so many activities to try, like dancing, book clubs, arts and crafts.

For ideas and information, get in touch with one of our helpful team on 1800 951 971.

Do something together that none of you have done before.

There are so many activities to try, like dancing, book clubs, arts and crafts.

For ideas and information, get in touch with one of our helpful team on 1800 951 971.

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Each grandchild is unique. It's important to tailor your approach.

Your full attention, flexibility, and patience is a precious gift.

It's unlikely that your grandchildren will receive this gift from anyone else. This is also what can make you special to them.

Each grandchild is unique. It's important to tailor your approach.

Your full attention, flexibility, and patience is a precious gift.

It's unlikely that your grandchildren will receive this gift from anyone else. This is also what can make you special to them.

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More helpful information

If you need more information, take the LiveUp quiz or get in touch with one of our helpful team on 1800 951 971.

You can also find more tips and advice by following the links below:

The four Bs that help kids bond with their grandparents | ABC News

How to navigate the joys and challenges of grandparenting | Berkeley.edu

How to help grandparents and grandchildren grow their bond | Relationships Australia NSW

If you need more information, take the LiveUp quiz or get in touch with one of our helpful team on 1800 951 971.

You can also find more tips and advice by following the links below:

The four Bs that help kids bond with their grandparents | ABC News

How to navigate the joys and challenges of grandparenting | Berkeley.edu

How to help grandparents and grandchildren grow their bond | Relationships Australia NSW

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10 ways to connect with your grandchildren
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